Ways to Avoid Habits that ruin Relationships

Posted on 12/06/2013 I by: AstroSatthi

Criticizing or disapprove his family

No matter how you feel about your boyfriend's family, making it known to him just how much they drive you crazy is bound to drive an irreversible segment into your relationship. Even if he, himself, thinks his relatives are bonkers, no one likes to hear others bash their blood relatives, so it's best to hold your tongue when the subject of his family comes up.

Keeping it secret suggests you are ashamed of your choice. Someone will inevitably find out, which will make everyone else in the family angry and upset with you both.

wrestle or Fighting in public

It's natural for couples to have the occasional argument, especially after being together for any significant amount of time; however, fights that become so uncontrollable that they regularly spill out into the open are an embarrassing and damaging relationship problem that should be nixed.

A man has the right to hit a woman to protect himself. It is never right for a man to hit a woman first off but he does have right to protect himself. Women are not delicate weak little things. They also have bicep power and arms and ten fingers on two hands capable of damage.

Personal care

Not only is it bad for your health and overall well-being, but letting yourself go -- whether that means gaining weight or not caring about your appearance -- after settling into a relationship is one habit that sends a bad message to your partner: if you stop caring about yourself, he may assume that you've stopped caring about him too.

You may have ended your rescuing relationship (or several of them) but, in your head and heart, still hear it calling to you. Letting go of a relationship filled with tension and excitement, the kind of drama a white knight tends to experience with a partner, is a difficult endeavor for many reasons.

Trying to improve him

Many women think they are helping the men that they're with by trying to make them over, however, by doing so, they only end up causing more problems for the relationship. Think of men as being similar to dogs: they may be able to learn a new trick or two over the course of arelationship, but if you think you can turn in a pit bull into a poodle, you are going to be in for a whole lot of heartbreak.

It can be difficult to understand a person we are in relationship with especially when sometimes we don’t even understand ourselves.If we want to make permanent meaningful changes in our relationship dynamics, we should address the real cause – the images we carry in our minds of ourselves, and each other.

Allowing problems to aggravate

Everyone would like to think that they have the perfect relationship; however, if in your quest to avoid creating drama in your relationship, you frequently allow things that upset you to go unsaid, you are doing yourself and your partner a great disservice. Good communication is the cornerstone of any happy, long-term coupling.

Lying to him

Lying to him about the smallest thing is not a positive indication for a long-term relationship. He will come to know the truth some or the other time which might hurt him and lead to the end of your relationship. It is always advisable to be open.Just don't do it.